My Journey Through Divorce Beyond the Physical Realm 73

Loving Message:  At All times you are given a choice.  Each choice leads to the ultimate outcome of spiritual growth and advancement.  This is why you are alive on planet earth Now.

~ Mother Earth ~

On the subject of infidelity, I recently received a friend request on FB from someone who had an affair with the husband I am now divorcing.  I found myself looking at her wall, pics and videos and felt traces of old anger arise.  It didn’t take me long to realize that what I was doing was changing my energy level, causing me to feel bad.  So I turned my computer off and sought assistance from my guides through meditation.

~ Meditation ~

“Why would someone have an affair with a man who is not only married but has kids?” I ask.

“The answer is about choice, both yours and hers,” I hear my guides explain.

“My choice?” I ask, feeling frustrated because somehow I knew this was coming.

“Yes, you married a man who admitted to this type of behavior in the past and you chose to overlook it,” they said.

“I suppose I did,” I remembered.  “I thought it wouldn’t happen with me.”

“This is where you chose to listen to your mind and not your intuition,” they said.  “And how do you feel now?”

“I feel angry at myself for making the choices that led to the horrible state of divorce that I am in,” I said.  “But at the same time, I remember to forgive myself and let it go.  I am thankful for the two radiant children that I now have in my life.”

“And how do you feel about this other woman?” they asked.

“I get the connection.  I understand her role in my life and I choose to not waste another ounce of energy feeling bad about it,” I said, feeling my frequency adjusting and elevating.

“Bravo,” they cheered, “Even though you dealt with this hurt and loss many years ago, it needed to be revisited in the Now in order for you to fully heal from your divorce.  And as a result, the amount of earthly time you must spend in this process is shortened.  Go Now and be joyful for this is why you are on earth at this precise moment of time.”

“Thank you,” I say out loud.  “Thank you!”

In Joyful Being-ness, Beth

“When you acknowledge what you do not want, and then ask yourself, “What is it that I do want?” you begin a gradual shift into the telling of your new story and into a much-improved point of attraction.

You get the essence of what you think about – whether you want it or not – because Law of Attraction is unerringly consistent – therefore, you are never only telling the story of “how it is now.” You are also telling the future experience that you are creating right now.”

— Abraham