Divine Guidance: As with everything, you have a choice. You can either focus on what causes you emotional pain or you can notice the littlest of things that bring joy to your heart. When you are in alignment, you feel good, simple as that.
I found better-feeling emotions about the “to move or not to move” dilemma this past weekend. My friend and I went around the neighborhood for a tour of homes currently on the market, and we started on the top of the Northwest Hills where some of the homes could be on “The Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous.” We “Oooh’d” and “Ahhh’d” over the beautiful decorations, artwork and extravagant interior designs, selecting our favorite wall colors, flooring and lighting fixtures. Many of the homes had expansive views to the west, including the Cascade Mountains.
It was all very fun and exciting, however, at some point my wicked brain tried to torture me a bit, pointing out that my house is not furnished, and not only that, but that I have never in my adult life owned new furniture. The little bit that was new is gone with the soon to be ex-husband, and now my house sits, mostly empty, and undecorated, with $10 bedside tables from Target, and so on, in my typical blah blah blah mental pattern…
As I felt my joyful energy waning with the ugly tugs of my ego, attempting to drag me down into the self-pity abyss, we drove past a house on a hill and it caught my eye. It had an open house sign out front, and low and behold, it was the same house I fell in love with 3 years ago when we were house hunting. A wave of enthusiasm struck me. We went inside and my passion peaked as we walked from room to room, taking in the gorgeous yard views from all over.
Finally we left my favorite house and I felt wonderful, knowing that my emotions were not specifically about the house, rather, my angels were reminding me that no matter where I end up living that I will be joyful and my children will share in the experience… and that is all that matters.
In Excited Anticipation, Beth
“The most important thing that you can teach your children is that Well-being abounds. And that Well-being is naturally flowing to them. And that if they will relax and reach for thoughts that feel good, and do their best to appreciate, then they will be less likely to keep the Well-being away, and more likely to allow it to flow into their experience. Teach them the art of allowing.”
— Abraham