Message from Spirit: Each individual, no matter how small, is able to choose either alignment or misalignment. As spiritually aware parents, we can help our children to remember how it feels to be in flow with universal energy.
~ Positive Energy ~
This is a story of assisting a young child in choosing the path of non-resistance.
My youngest son has been feeling very angry and frustrated since the onset of divorce last fall. Not only do I feel his misalignment at home, but his teacher and classmates feel it as well. He has been using his body to act out in a negative pattern, hitting, kicking, making loud noises and mistreating the belongings of other people. Recently, he began refusing to talk to me about his actions and his feelings, shutting me out with defiance.
~ Clash of Will ~
My Earth Angel felt this resistance and called me one day, offering a new tactic to use when he hits this self-made brick wall. She suggested telling him that until he agrees to talk, he will not have it, be it or do it, whatever it is that is his favorite activity in the moment. And, of course, to back this up with consistent consequences. She also had the idea to use dimes and to begin placing them on a piece of paper so that he could count how much money or points he was losing, as the number of dimes increased, the amount of repercussion also increased. This concrete formula for teaching responsibility struck me as not only sound, but fool proof as well.
The next day I had the opportunity to say the “You will not have it, be it or do it” technique when he refused to discuss his behavior in school. These words acted like an energetic slap into alignment for my son because he immediately changed his tune and talked about the incident and his feelings. It was a productive development in what was becoming a negative pattern of self defeating actions for my son and since this first time I have had to use this same catch phrase only one more time this week… PROGRESS!!!
And this is another step in healing for both myself and my son.
In Gratitude, Beth
“I’ll Not Ask Others to Become Different for Me… Let your Vibrational Escrow percolate, and you do your best to give it your undivided attention so that you become a Vibrational Match to it. And then, when the Law of Attraction brings all of it together and brings you, because you’re a match, together with it – then there aren’t any bugs to work out. Don’t ask the person, or people, that helped you to define what you want to become what you want so that you can have what you want. (Oh, that was so good.) Instead, let them be the Step One part of it (the asking part). Use your willpower and your decision to focus upon what you want – and then the Universe will bring you what you want.”
— Abraham
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